BABY MAMA

 

Recently, one new name that looks like it has come to stay among Nigerian celebrities, is baby mama syndrome. This is used to describe a woman who has a child for a man outside wedlock it has gradually been adapted into our vocabulary and has today gotten to be hip as well as assuming a basic part in molding our way of life. With a greater amount of our superstars who have colossal social influencer qualifications becoming involved with this disorder and publicizing it gladly, it is nothing unexpected that all of a sudden being an baby mama  by and large, has turned into a cool thing for huge numbers of our susceptible adolescents and youngsters.


Change is steady they say. In any case, certain progressions are stressing and present dangers to our basic presence. When I was more youthful, the news that a young woman got pregnant through premarital sex incited a specific sort of response. Of objection and nobody expected to let you know that getting pregnant or impregnating somebody before marriage was essentially unsuitable behavior. The trepidation of the related disgrace guaranteed you kept your legs together and your pants, sped up.But these days, the culture of decency is fast fading away, especially among Nigerian celebrities. Getting pregnant outside wedlock is now being celebrated, with a nickname baby mama.

Today anyway, we appear to have done a complete U-turn. More big names and individuals who shape feeling are having babies out of wedlock. The media commends it. What's more, more ladies speak energetically about simply "having his child" and not "being his significant other." Indeed, there is progressively encouraged contention against marriage itself and the liberalization of sex such that sex even among minors is turning into an ordinary thing. Presently, when it is said that a neighbors reprobate young little girl is pregnant or that a resolute cousin who talks back at his dad has gotten a young lady pregnant, individuals scarcely recoil. At most, they moan and after that go ahead with whatever they were doing, unruffled. Unconcerned.


So what has happened? What is bringing on the emergency?
The issue as I would like to think is greater than any one reason that anybody can cite. Individuals discuss a general separate of ethics, about youngsters being more "degenerate" nowadays. Others have prosecuted guardians for resigning on their obligations of bringing up their kids aright. Despite everything others have contended for sex instruction and safe sex, contending against the treatment of sex like some sort of puzzle, something examined just in quieted tones by society, upholding for more openness. Today anti-conception medication techniques are publicized without limitations over all media channels. However even with the learning, numerous youngsters essentially lose the feeling of control. Some despite everything others point the finger at it on globalization and how the acts of the west are contrarily affecting our own particular manner of life, transforming us into what we are most certainly not.

The response to the inquiry is a mix of every one of these contentions. Generally, it is an outcome of our disappointment as a people to place accentuation on what ought to be imperative; the family. After some time, in our interest for riches, profession and the headway of specific ideas that should advance a feeling of opportunity and demonstrate human progress, we have wound up confusing our lives and in the process putting a cutting edge on the strings that hold us together as a people. Our awareness of other's expectations has gotten to be disintegrated and supplanted by a perilous mentality that recommends that we are at freedom to experience our lives at any rate we need to without giving a hoot about the results of our activities.