The practice in Africa, is for a woman to get married to an older man. There are cases however, where we find ladies these days getting married to men that are younger than them.
The question here is, as a woman, would you get married to a man younger than you? if yes, why? if no, why? People have reasons for everything they do in life. The women who get into these kind of relationships have their reasons.We can see the case of Ann Njemanze, the popular face on a NigerianTV series Tinsel.
After a fizzled marriage with prevalent Nollywood on-screen character, Segun Arinze, on-screen character Anne Njemanze at long last discovered her actual missing rib in an exceptionally more youthful person. Anne revealed this herself amid a meeting, in which she admitted that her present spouse is route more youthful than her and they have been hitched for near a year now.
As we speak now, they have seperated. But did they seperate because of the age difference?
I feel that a woman involved in this kind of relationship, will have many issues to contend with, like the issue of the boy's family expecting children from the woman, when she is past the age of child bearing, the issue of the younger men being unfaithful to the wife, the issue of the woman getting duped by her younger husband and lots of other issues.
With all these issues in the marriage, how can the woman be satisfied and fulfilled marrying a younger man?
Another question that comes to mind, is what will attract a younger man to an older woman? This trend can also be seen among some young Nigerian boys who want to get rich quick. You find them getting married to women who are old enough to be their grand mothers.
56 YEARS OLD WHITE WOMAN MARRYING A 28 YEAR OLD NIGERIAN BOY AND GOT DUPED
56-Year-Old White Woman Who Fell In Love And Married 28-Year-Old Nigerian Man Finds Out He's A Fraud. 56-year-old lady, Jane Cole went gaga for a 28yr old Nigerian barkeep, Michael in 2005 yet got her heart broken after she understood he was soon after her cash.
Jane Cole, 56, realized that The Gambia in Western Africa had a notoriety for being a hotbed of occasion sentiments between youthful nearby men and more established British ladies.
Be that as it may, when she chose to enjoy a reprieve there with her companion Vanessa in 2005, she never thought she'd get herself made up for lost time in one.
'I'm very experienced,' said Jane, from Rothwell, who viewed herself as excessively sensible, making it impossible to get involved with a more youthful man.But then she met Michael, a 28-year-old Nigerian barkeep, and his beguiling, mindful nature attracted her promptly.
Michael rapidly made it clear he needed more than only a one-night stand while she was on vacation in the nation. He needed a relationship. 'I was totally sucked in,' said Jane.
At the point when Michael proposed, Jane chose to keep it a mystery from her more youthful sister Tracy, knowing she would dislike. Rather, she traveled to The Gambia and wedded him, leaving Tracy to call her a nitwit.
Rapidly, Jane started to see that she may have been correct.
Michael said he needed to move into Jane's home with her in the UK, despite the fact that she had set her heart on another life in The Gambia, as they had talked about. In any case, she adored him, so she concurred.
Be that as it may, when the couple touched base in the UK, Jane started to scrutinize Michael's dependability, particularly when he started vanishing for long stretches.
In the wake of calling a number that showed up every now and again on his telephone charge, she achieved a lady with whom Michael had been having a relationship for a long time.
'When I stood up to Michael he just let it be known and chuckled. "Individuals snicker then they see us together," he said. I was crushed. My self-assurance sunk to a record-breaking low. He had depleted me of everything, both monetarily and inwardly.'
'I pointed the finger at myself for being absurd and succumbing to it. Should be savvy yet I never had a suspicion. I thought all that he said. What's more, on the off chance that he had let me know the lady was only a companion, regardless i'd have trusted him.'
22-Year-Old Nigerian Marries 82-Year-Old White Woman..Indeed affection is visually impaired. What do you think about this 23 years of age with this 82 years of age granny?
In a wedding service at Ikoyi registry, Lagos, a 28-year-old Nigerian man has got married with a 71-Year-Old European lady. Regardless of the 43 years contrast in their ages, the couple communicated they got hitched in light of the fact that they are profoundly infatuated. Nonetheless, numerous Nigerians are stating this wedding possibly for different reasons yet cherish.
why do you think these boys are rushing into this kind of marriages? Some people think its because they need to move out of Nigeria for a better life abroad.But what do you think? Share your comments on this blog. Do you see these marriages succeeding? How will they raise children since the woman has reached menopause?
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