I CAUGHT MY HUSBAND CHEATING
A woman caught her husband cheating and decided to lock him outside their home. The man came back and couldn't get into his house. Do you think the woman took the right step?The question here is what can a woman do if she catches her husband cheating on her?This was the topic of discussion in a programme on my radio station yesterday. The idea is that no woman wants to share her husband with another woman. A recent research carried out in Nigeria, shows that 99% of men in Nigeria cheat on their wives. In some cases, if the woman is caught cheating on the husband, she is asked to pack her things and leave. But on the other hand, if a man is caught cheating on the wife, the woman will be asked to endure it that men are like that. If you ask me, I will say that this is not fair on the woman.
Back to our Radio Programme. The Presenter sought the opinion of the Listeners on what a woman should do if you see your husband cheating on you.
The first caller said : In a situation like this, what a woman should do is to pray for the husband because, the husband is under an influence. He said that any man that is cheating on the wife is controlled by some strange powers, so the wife should handle it with prayers and show him love. And I ask myself How can a woman show love to a cheating husband?
This caller continued by saying that the woman will be doing the wrong thing if she starts picking quarrels with her husband in this kind of situation. According to him, the best option is to go to God in Prayers.
Presenter's Response: This person says pray.So because women are not praying anymore, things are going wrong in the home?
The 2nd caller identified himself as Stephen and said that he listened to the last caller and said he is in support of that opinion recommending prayers for a woman that has a cheating husband. He said a man that keeps another woman's photograph and love text messages in his phone, is under some kind of negative influence and cautioned the woman in this kind of situation, to know that someone is trying to take her position in the home, so she needs to handle the situation wisely. He ended by saying that the woman needs to pray.
3rd caller. The 3rd caller said that the cause of this, is that most single ladies prefer to date married men, saying that they have experience in taking care of a woman.
Presenter's comment- Young ladies are on the hunt for married men, so wives you need to pray for your husbands.
4th caller: The 4th caller identified herself as Ella and advised women to find out the outdoor activity that excites their husbands. In other words find out your husband's hobbies and develop interest in his hobbies. If your husband likes to watch football, as a woman, learn how to watch football. This will endear your husband to you.
Summary
From what the callers have said the woman should pray, show him love and identify with his hobbies. Do you think this will solve the problem of a man who is a chronic womanizer?
What do you think?
Your comments are needed.
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